- Behaviours – A person’s behaviours, especially around food, eating and exercise become disorder, often in extreme and destructive ways. e.g. restricting food, overeating, purging and over-exercising.
- Thoughts/Cognition – The person’s thoughts become distorted, irrational and extreme and very ‘all or nothing’ or ‘black and white’. These distorted thoughts and ideas, in turn encourage, trigger and influence the disordered behaviours.
- Physically – How we feed ourselves affects our physical wellness, so when a person has an eating disorder, depending on the disordered behaviours, they will experience physical changes, symptoms often deteriorating physically. e.g. very low weight.
- Emotionally – When a person’s behaviour and thinking becomes distorted this causes emotional distress and chaos. In addition to this, eating disorders develop to due to underlying emotional distress or turmoil of some kind, so entangled with the other aspects is the emotional well-being, or emotional distress the person is experiencing.
Essentially, it is very helpful to think of an eating disorder a destructive coping mechanism a person has found that, in some way, helps them to feel better able to cope day-to-day.
How does ‘normal’ disordered eating differ from an eating disorder?
We all engage in disordered eating to varying degrees. None of us eating the same way each day – how we feel does influence how we feed ourselves. But, where a person crosses over from ‘normal’ disordered eating into an ‘eating disorder’, is where compulsion comes into play.
When a person feels compelled to – that they have no choice, they feel they must – engage in disordered eating disorders e.g. restricting, bingeing, purging, over-exercising, or they will feel out of control, panicky, anxious, they fear not doing it – this is in the realm of an eating disorder, rather than just normal disordered eating. A person may have an eating disorder when their anxiety levels bring about the compulsion to eat in a certain way, where they are driven by a fear of gaining weight or feel out of control if they don’t do ‘it’.
- An eating disorders is not primarily about food – this is one part and it is how the emotional distress and turmoil manifests itself
- An eating disorder is a destructive coping mechanism, so stopping/letting it go/trying to recover is frightening, difficult and will trigger resistance
- People can and do recover from eating disorders